Well a few weeks ago i wrote a post entitled My definition of a good man. This is sort of an addendum/revision if you will. What i mean is i might have been kinda naive and somewhat unrealistic so this post will try to encompass some realism as well as correct or improve on what the previous post lacked. It might be a lil long winded so bear with me LOL.
*A real man knows how to treat his lady, and he tries not ignore her or hurt her in any way.
* A real man knows how to hold an intriguing conversation and sex doesnt even have to be a topic.
*A real man is compassionate and is not afraid to show his emotions.
*A real man knows how to keep it real( i think thats obvious though LOL).
* A real man understands that i have expectations and will try his hardest to live up to them.
*A real man will let me be there for him and support him through whatever happens.
*A real man isnt afraid to be loved.
*A real man knows the meaning of unconditional love.
*A real man shows me why he needs me in his life as often as possible.
*A real man allows me to show interest in his life.
*A real man makes it easy for me to trust him.
*A real man is educated in more ways than one.
*A real man isnt intimidated by a woman that is going places and he is willing to take the journey.
*A real man can make me laugh.
*A real man stimulates my mind and keeps my interest.
*A real man is there for me when he can be.
* A real man is one that is willing to grow with me.
*A real man is one that believes in god and fears the wrath of god.
*A real man is one who lets me speak my mind.
* A real man is one who can teach me something or show me a different way of seeing things and who is not afraid to learn from me either.
*A real man is one who allows me to be myself but still loves me.
*A real man is a man who will do little things just to see me happy.
Well i cant think of anything else but you get my drift.Sorry it was so short, i guess im more concise than i thought. A real man is just a man that accepts me for me and allows me to love, care about, and cherish him as much as he cherishes me. I know now that men will be men and no man is perfect and it is foolish and ignorant to think so. I just wish that the men that i cared about would care about me the same way and see things from my perspective from time to time. It always seems like we are on different levels and they never match up. Sooner or later things will get better i guess. But for now, thats my opinion. Only more experience and time will improve and expand this train of thought. Well those are my beliefs what are yours?
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