Well here it is. i been thinking about this topic alot lately so i decided to write about it. Just my thoughts, not law. Take them or leave them its up to you.
Pros: Being in a relationship
1) There is someone in your life that genuinely loves, cares for, and appreciates you for who you truly are.
2) You feel the same way about them.
3)You have someone to cuddle with LOL
4) You can tell them anything and they'll take it for what it is(wont twist your words)
5)You have alot in common
6)Both parties are pulling their weight to make it work
7)That person is your friend and your lover.
8)That person listens to you.
9) They remember the little things that make you happy.
10) You both see eye to eye on things, most of the time.
11)They are very supportive.
12)They treat you right
(more but i dont wanna write a novel LOL, feel free to add more)
Cons:Being in a relationship
1)The other person could cheat.
2) They will lie.
3)They will act distant for no apparent reason
4)You might feel unloved sometimes
5)No matter how mad you are you still love them but you dont want to get your heart broken or your feelings hurt.
6)You might not talk everyday or hang out as much as you should.
7)The person may take you for granted.
8)Yall lose the connection.
9)No matter what they do, you still care, even though you shouldnt
10)It takes alot of work and dedication to make a relationship work.
11) You may not get alot of alone time.
12)Complicates life.
(Now all of these, pros and cons can apply to you too, not just the person, as always, its a two way street!!)
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Pros: Being single
1) You can do whatever you want.
2) Dont have to worry about calling anyone.
3)You have alot of alone time.
4) You can have alot of male friends to fill the void.(strictly platonic though, not on no trick stuff LOL)
5)You feel happier sometimes because you dont have to worry about your heart getting broken.
6)Life is more simple.
7)you can just go on about your business and do you. In other words, be ms. independent (LOL)
8)Sometimes you learn more about love from being single.
9)it gives you time to grow as a person so you can be better for the next or your ex if it works out!!
10)You dont have to live up to somebody's expectations.
11)You learn to appreciate it when you do have a man. But you also learn that you dont need a man, you just want a man.
12)Sometimes life is more spontaneous.
Cons: Being single
1) It gets lonely
2)Sometimes you want a man in your life but it just doesnt work out that way.
3)Life may get boring after a while.
4) You get impatient for love.
5)You may use being single as an excuse to be evil to all mankind... LOL
6)Its not fun being alone all the time.
7)you miss your ex
8)Sometimes you want less spontaneity and more continuity and consistency, which is what a relationship USually offers.
9)You dont have anyone to cuddle with LOL
10)You need some excitement in your life.
11)Old memories flood your head.
12)You might get fat from all that comfort food LOL
Well those are my thoughts...i know funny right? But yeah there are pros and cons to everything. You have to take the good with the bad because life and love arent all roses. You have to get through the storm to see the sunshine. So i guess both are necessary. Sometimes you have more of one than you would like but thats life. You just gotta work through it and pray that god will bless you with a love that is unconditional, real, and true.
Great post, everything you wrote is right on time!
ReplyDeleteI hope I get the one that our love is unconditional, real, and true!
LMAO on those being in a relationship CONS!
May cheat and lie lolololol
Yep, you are right on both accounts...i guess it really depends on what you really want in the end, and how much of the cons you can put up with. One thing i know for sure...i don't want to live this life alone.
ReplyDelete@Miz - I'm with you on that one, I don't want to live this life alone either.
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